Christian writers seem to find the concept of ‘happiness’ as difficult to pin down as anyone else. In her book Happiness Joan Chittister claims that:
‘Happiness can never be found in the things of this world. Happiness requires more than the senses, more than pleasure. It requires that, though loving these things, we transcend them to become bigger than ourselves for the sake of the rest of the world. It requires a life full of meaning, full of purpose, full of a reason to be alive that transcends itself’.
Clearly this suggests that it is easier to describe what happiness is not rather than what it is. Yet her book is a fascinating and comprehensive examination of many dimensions of happiness, exploring what it might mean in a global age, defining it as a process, as a brain function and as a goal while also considering the differences between pleasure and happiness in psychology, philosophy and major faith traditions. Her meditative and discursive style supports her conclusion that there is no simple definition: finding happiness requires an involved and involving journey; it is always deeply personal, inextricably bound up with relationships. It is, at its core, a necessary part of what it means to be alive.
Abbot Christopher Jamison’s Finding Happiness is clearly written with a straightforward structure built upon the simple premise that ‘happiness comes to us indirectly as the fruit of defeating the causes of our unhappiness’. Taking the monastic insight that the negative preoccupations at the root of our unhappiness can be placed in one of eight categories – those of the body: gluttony, lust and greed; those of the heart and mind: anger, sadness and acedia (spiritual carelessness or apathy); and those of the soul: vanity and pride – he then opens up an analysis of each condition and possible ways to fend off or neutralise it. It is a gentle, generous and practical book which repays thoughtful reading.
As does Jeanette Winterson’s recent memoir, Why be Happy When You Could be Normal? It covers much the same ground as Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit, but reaches beyond to examine the impact her upbringing left on later life. Despite the almost unbearable agony inflicted by her adoptive mother’s ultra-strict, highly skewed brand of apocalyptic Pentecostalism, Winterson’s respect for the Christian faith is profound: she is immersed, steeped, saturated and to some extent preserved by the language of the Bible. Her unfolding life continues to accommodate a generous spirituality. Among the strong, arresting images, there is much to ponder in this seemingly candid memoir that takes by turns a tortuous and an euphoric journey towards a state of relatedness to the world that encompasses a sense of happiness conspicuously rejected by her adoptive mother who lived by the mantra of the title quotation.
So, finally from happiness to joy, and while C.S. Lewis’s Surprised by Joy might be the classic on the subject, I would like to put in a plea for the poetry of St John of the Cross (try the translation by John Frederick Nims for an accessible modern rendering). Born out of terrible suffering and sparked onto the page by the imprisoned John hearing a drunkard in the street singing a bawdy song to his girlfriend, these poems are bubbling over with the ecstatic, uncontainable joy of the lover for the beloved – the overwhelming, exuberant and transcendent love of Christ for each one of his children.
Richard Greatrex
Joan Chittister: Happiness, DLT, 9780232528909 (£12.99)
Christopher Jamison: Finding Happiness, Phoenix, 9780753826096 (£7.99)
Jeanette Winterson: Why be Happy When you Could be Normal, Jonathan Cape, 9780224093453 (£14.99)
C. S. Lewis: Surprised by Joy, Harper Collins, 9780006280835 (£7.99)
St John of the Cross: The Poems, (translated by John Frederick Nims), Chicago University Press, 9780226401102, (£9.50)
Other recent Christian books on ‘happiness’ worth looking at include:
J. John: The Happiness Secret, Hodder, 9780340979303 (£8.99)
While Chittister and Jamison each include a short excursus on the relationship between the Beatitudes and happiness J. John takes writes a whole book about them. He knows that you can’t exactly equate ‘Blessed are the…’ with ‘Happy are the…’ but in an accessible, unglamorous and practical way he takes time to unpack each of these sayings of Jesus in turn and show how if applied to our daily lives they might transform both them and the society around us.
Nell W. Mohney: Just Choose Happiness, Abingdon Press, 9780687647231 (£8.99)
When I read that the author was a popular motivational speaker I wondered what I was going to find in the book but it is actually a very practical and sensible guide to finding happiness in our lives. The starting point is that Christ should be the centre of our focus and the centre of our hearts and every page is filled with relevant quotes from the Bible and from major Christian authors. This is a gentle introduction to the joys of a spirit-filled life.